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Marriages are made in heaven
(Voice of an ordinary woman)

By: Zehra Parvani

Marriages are made in heaven therefore; the attraction between the partners is almost God's wish. And as they are celebrated on earth therefore, some rituals need to be considered. Some important rituals like sending proposal and marriage contract (Nikah) has major significance in couples’ life. Marriages that are arranged bring many doubts in couples’ mind but as they are with parents wish therefore, couples sacrifices a lot. Similarly, if I talk about myself it is true to say that my decision for my marriage has taken by my family but I am much satisfied with my relationship with my couple as we are having love marriage. There are many reasons for which I am satisfied with this decision but the most important reason for is the comparison of different proposals with my couple’s proposal. When I compare my life partner with different proposals I found myself lucky to have my dear with me. The selection of him as my life partner is more preferable due to his attitude, characteristics and behavior.

The attitude he possess is awesome as he has good sense of humor and friendly nature. He attracts the people with his broadmindedness and positive attitude. His versatile quality which has made me his fan is his respecting attitude towards women. In addition, he is good looking guy with average height and weight. He is decent and well- mannered guy which reflects that he belongs to a respectable family. When I look myself with him it seems that we both are made for each other.

The thing which cannot be ignored before taking decision for marriage is the status and standing of a guy. I have always dreamt for an educated and well-off guy and I think my life partner is almost my friend is studding and doing masters in business administration. He is very hard working boy.

Nevertheless, marriages are made in heaven and are celebrated on earth but the decisions for marriages should be taken after critical thinking. Selection of the life partner is not an easy job but sometimes it gets easy as God wants us to be with our partner who has selected by him for us.