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“Punishment” more painful than its sounds
By: Farah Charania
Giving punishment to children in the school is an established
practice in educational institutes of Pakistan. One of the
situations that I encountered was a girl of 7 standard .She
developed anxiety and fear of attending school, whenever she was
not able to complete her work, when some time she talks in the
class or when she is unable to understand certain concepts, in
these situations she was made to stand at the end of her class room
with her hands up. As a result she has lost her interest in
studies. I had seen her scolding her small cousins and giving them
same punishment when she observes that they are doing things
against her wishes.
People perceive these punishments as the key to educate children
discipline. This perception is not a reality but is myth. Media and
news paper regularly highlights the need for avoiding corporal
punishment or the physical punishment given to the children in the
schools. Corporal punishment is the intentional infliction of pain
or discomfort and/or the use of physical force upon a student in
order to stop or change behavior (Hyman & Perone, 1998). Forms of
physical punishment that are commonly been seen are slapping
cheeks, hitting children on their hands with sticks, child being
hit on his or her buttocks, has to kneel down on the floor for long
durations and when the child has to stand on the desk of classroom
. But these punishments can be harsh and abusive according to
different setting and places.
The false rationale that arises in our population’s mind is, why to
avoid this punishment that is being traditionally given to the
children in schools. As far as my observation is, the perception in
people’s mind is that through these punishments teachers control
children in the class; it’s easy to make them discipline and
enhance their moral character, or increase the teacher’s respect in
student’s eyes. But no one realizes the consequences. These
punishments may affect psychology of children in many ways; they
may adversely affect their performance in academics and daily life
activities.
Discipline is the guidance of children’s moral, emotional and
physical development, enabling children to take responsibility for
them when they are older (Holden 2002, Wissow 2002). It involves
teaching children the boundaries of what is acceptable and what is
not acceptable, and it makes them aware of the values and actions
that are acceptable in their family and society where as Physical
or corporal punishment is the use of force to cause pain, but not
injury, for the purpose of correction or control (Straus and
Stewart 1999). Therefore teachers have to change their perception
of making child disciplined because an individual is not
disciplined only when he or she is been artificially silent as a
mute and is immovable as a paralytic .But a child should be given
liberty that they may able to learn from their mistakes and were
able to express themselves.
Recent case highlighted by media occurred in Multan, was that an
eight-year-old girl was beaten so harshly by her teacher that she
had to be hospitalized .This is one condition only, media and
newspaper are full of such real life situations in which children
had left schools or had harmed other children or even themselves or
gone in depression because of so called punishments that are
according to most of teacher’s assumption are made for enhancing
discipline in children. It is being wisely said that human beings
learn from their mistakes. But when these small children make
mistakes they are badly punished that in my opinion is more of
physical abuse than an act for improving child’s behavior and it
seems as everyone knows how to teach children except those who
teach them.
Another boy who was badly beaten by his teacher with a wooden stick
now had left school and had developed a kind of school phobia. Who
is responsible for the future of that child?
Other negative side effects of the punishments are running away;
being truant; fear of teachers or school; feeling high levels of
anxiety, helplessness and humiliation; and being aggressive or
destructive at home and school (Griffin, Robinson & Carpenter,
2000).
According to research done by David Benatar (1998) Corporal
Punishment is psychologically damaging, as it teaches the child
that violence is an appropriate way to settle disagreements. So
it’s clearly reflected that the more physical punishment will be
used, the more disobedient and aggressive the children will be.
For a teacher its important to know that Physical punishment is
related with increased child aggression, antisocial behavior, lower
intellectual achievement, poorer quality of parent–child
relationships, mental health problems (such as depression), and
above mentioned side effects. Good behaviors and discipline in an
student can also being achieved with other alternatives for example
effective discipline can be achieved by using simple instructions
rather than punishment. According to Arcus, 2002; Owen, 2005;
Robinson et al., Society for Adolescent Medicine, (2003) Physical
punishment has negative effects on children outcomes, especially if
it is harsh, regardless of culture. Students are more likely to
experience corporal punishment if they are poor, male, of ethnic
minority status, or live within specific regions.
According to research done by Andero & Stewart, 2002; Owen, 2005;
Society for Adolescent Medicine, Corporal punishment does not
produce long-lasting changes in behavior, negatively effects the
social, psychological and educational development of students,
contributes to the cycle of child abuse, and promotes pro-violence
attitudes of youth.
Being a nurse I would prefer that School psychologists or the
school nurses can take leadership roles to encourage school
districts to ban corporal punishment, develop effective discipline
programs as alternatives, and correct misperceptions that support
the use of corporal punishment. Consequently we would be able to
give children a better learning environment in the school and would
able to produces citizen who are not only better professionals but
also they have better personalities and decision making powers.
“Mistakes are natural part of growing up. Children bloom like
spring and flower under praise they want so much to be noticed and
appreciated, to excel and have the excellence noticed”.
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